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I’m tired of going on dates it always feels like an interview….how do u girls do motivate yourself
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Anonymous 1d

i think a lot of women really don’t want their time wasted so they get all the big questions out up front. and we motivate ourselves by thinking about our end goal; a healthy, happy, loving relationship.

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Anonymous 16h

It feels less like an interview if youre doing smth fun imo. Like instead of a coffee or bar date ill do swimming or berry picking or tide pooling. If shes disabled ill do like a picnic with card games or crafts or smth thats also an activity but accessible

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Anonymous 8h

I’m building a sisterhood with women that I can trust not to murder, coerce, or look down on me. I will occasionally develop crushes, mostly on men, but I have 0 trust for men after observing them. My dad told me not to trust men, and he is one. Dating me will definitely feel like you’re being studied, until you genuinely earn my trust. Can’t help it, I’m dumpster diving for gold.

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