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I’ve been cheated on , do women really always have a backup plan or side dude ? Scared to get in another relationship
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Anonymous 5w

Women and men of a certain personality type will always have backups, yeah

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Anonymous 5w

no

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Anonymous 5w

No

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Anonymous 5w

I can’t even talk to men let alone have a back up

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Anonymous 5w

If things with my man ever somehow end I will never love again—genuinely this is my one and only happily ever after

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Anonymous 5w

No we don’t

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Anonymous 5w

i mean me personally no but my best friend was had a crush on the sky for like a year. They weren’t like friends or anything. He went to a different school and she just never hit him up but he occasionally liked her Insta stories. But then she got a relationship with someone else, but she always told me that she had the other guy in the back of her mind like if she were to break up with her boyfriend she would get with that guy which she did actually do that.

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Anonymous 5w

My ex always had dudes hitting her DMs which she was always keen to remind me so I'd say yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

are you shy ?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I guess? I just literally don’t talk to guys especially because the second a guy gives me any kind of attention I start overthinking like crazy

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Well yah I randomly have guys messaging me but I don’t go for hoes

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

guess it’s hard being in a relationship then

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

I thought the same

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yah I mean I’ve only dated one guy for a few months and it was a HS relationship but I’m fine being single obviously cuddles and romance and all of that would be nice but it’s not necessary a priority

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

right this is not a gender thing. it’s an asshole thing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 5w

or an insecurity thing, not that the end result isn't asshole-y either way

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