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Women, how do I approach women at bars or parties?? I feel like I can’t strike up a conversation with a complete stranger unless there’s some sort of way into it
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Anonymous 12w

Start w eye contact and smiling if she’s into it and doesn’t seem creeped out go up say hi make a silly convo not too hard I’d say

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Anonymous 12w

I give this advice as a woman talking to women I’ve made friends with, so it may not work for a man: some of the best conversations are started by complimenting a part of their appearance that they chose (ie. Hairstyle, makeup, shoes, outfit, accessories, etc.) Other than that, just speak to them like people. If you’re a good guy, you can totally use conversation starters you’ve used to make friends with other guys. Focus on being friendly first, and flirty later.

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Anonymous 12w

Help

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I would also like help for this

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

It can be difficult to do this as a guy without sounding gay. Crass, but true

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