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I’m really stressing out about this girl man. Everything seems she likes me aside from like one thing. I feel like if she liked me she’d make time to see me. Monday we were talking about hanging out and then she went out with her friends instead of me
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Anonymous 13w

i think it’s fairly normal to prioritize your friends over a guy you’re casually seeing. you can’t expect her to put you above them. it doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you

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Anonymous 13w

Reciprocate her energy bro, get back in the drivers seat 💺

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Totally totally agree. Her and I are very good friends at the moment, so I thought she would want to spend time with me, but I understand why she would choose her friends. I’m not actually sure it’s her friends though. I’m panicking that it’s a dude

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

i totally get overthinking everything when you really like someone, but if she hasn’t given you a reason to not trust her, then you should trust her

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

She has mentioned to other coworkers in casual conversation that she had been snapping some guys, but never to me directly. But I agree

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

maybe she is and she is allowed to do that if you guys aren't exclusive. but that doesn't mean she doesn't like you or that she's lying to you about hanging out with her friends so she can blow you off for another guy. ik it's easier said than done but try not to spiral over what ifs. if it seems like things are going well and she likes you then trust in that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Thank you for the advice!

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