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help me! i don’t know what to do. i’ve been in a relationship for more than a year but im so miserable because he takes his anger out on me all the time, i cancel on my friends because he gets mad. like i know i have to end it but i have no idea how to.
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Anonymous 13h

If he is that explosive then 100% slowly start collecting your stuff. Then send a text or call him and explain you don’t feel safe having the convo in person and you wanna end it.

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Anonymous 13h

Slowly leave if you need to- or try and leave all at once. Tell your friends what’s going on and ask them for support and help.

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Anonymous 11h

make sure u have a place that he can’t get into at the very least , even better if he doesn’t know ur location at all. tell some friends and ask for help with devising a more specific plan. if he has a spare key to ur apartment, for example, consider speaking with ur landlord abt changing ur locks.

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Anonymous 7h

And I don’t mean that in a i hate men way— it’s more so, we are young and life is too short to be dealing with a boyfriend who takes his anger and insecurities out on you that’s not fair to you at all

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Anonymous 10h

when he gets mad at you just walk out

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Anonymous 7h

Break up these feelings won’t go away

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Anonymous 7h

It’s always hard but think about the bigger picture: YOUR LIFE. If you have these intuitions and they have been lingering end it. Don’t feel guilty either. The standards that men are held at are not good enough women constantly are forced to get through stupid bullshit that would’ve never slid if it was the other way around

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Anonymous 7h

And do it on text and then block him

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