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I wanna ask a question about finding a girl to hookup with, in person I'm very shy and tend to keep to myself but I wanna get out more and find people to hookup with. I'll take any advice I can get
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Anonymous 4w

Wait for hellraiser to get on she’s more helpful than I’d be. Strawberry gives good advice about self confidence. My advice is bar - approach no more than 3-5 people in a night - get comfortably tipsy (enough to give you confidence while still maintaining your ability to not slur or stumble) - start conversations off with sustained and maintained eye contact, wave/smile to appear friendly, approach (if they turn away walk past them), “hey I think you look really cool, my name is —- what’s

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Anonymous 4w

When it comes to hookups I can’t give advice. But like Forget said I have some tips for self confidence. 1) Wear something you feel good in. Do your hair, shave- whatever makes you feel more confident in your body. 2) Don’t necessarily focus on the hookup aspect of it. If you don’t go home with a woman that doesn’t mean you failed. 3) This is more overall advice but don’t be afraid to compliment people! Telling them they have cool shirts or a nice hair cut etc. That’ll also get you more used to

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 4w

talking with strangers.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 4w

I had a friend tell me to compliment a girl everyday so I would feel less shy about it and I’ll definitely work on the confidence too

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