Ask Women on Yik Yak | Anyone who has rekindled with their ex: How long did it take? And how did you cope with them being gone? I recently was broken up with and I still love him but healing seems impossible when the only thing I want is to be with him.

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Anyone who has rekindled with their ex: How long did it take? And how did you cope with them being gone? I recently was broken up with and I still love him but healing seems impossible when the only thing I want is to be with him.

Anonymous 3w

You may want to be with him but guess what, you can’t! The right person for you wouldn’t break up with you! It’s gonna hurt for awhile but entertaining this fantasy of getting back together will stop you from healing trust

Anonymous 3w

ngl we only rekindled cause i found out i was pregnant with his baby so idk girlie

Anonymous

#2 3w

I don't agree with this. There are lots of situations that can pull people apart and it isn't necessarily someone's fault. If it was a case where you were together and miserable and fighting but you miss them now that they're gone, then yes, #2 is probably right. But if it just didn't work out, who's to say you shouldn't try again if you have the chance?

Anonymous

#3 3w

He said it’s because he feels like he wants to grow as an individual because we’ve been together since we were 15(now 18). I respect that but it’s really hard because we had something really good and I miss the genuine happiness and love he made me feel.

Anonymous

OP 3w

If he was willing to part with you over that he doesn’t care as much about you as you do him. It’s possible and expected to grow as a person within a relationship, usually when people say that it just means they want to get with other people

Anonymous

#2 3w

Oh…