Ask Women on Yik Yak | If you went on a date with someone and had a good time, but rejected them after because you didn’t feel a romantic connection, how would you feel if they asked you for a second chance to peruse you?

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Ask Women 7w

If you went on a date with someone and had a good time, but rejected them after because you didn’t feel a romantic connection, how would you feel if they asked you for a second chance to peruse you?

Anonymous 7w

I really like this girl and we DO have a lot in common, but I also know I was very shy on the date until the very end so I don’t think they really got to meet the real me. My big fear is losing out on someone great because I couldn’t come out of my shell

Anonymous 7w

I wouldn’t accept that offer if I already declined. I can’t force a spark if I don’t feel one there

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Anonymous 7w

Personally I would feel a bit miffed because I already made my decision and expressed it, but if you provide an explanation as to why you think this time would be different than before as well as you’ll accept the decision of the end of that date, then it could be reasonable.

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mother_russia 7w

Shared interests don’t really make up for romantic attraction and you can’t cure being shy overnight, so I would say you’ll probably get rejected again and it might be better to take some time to come out of your shell before asking for another date

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mother_russia 7w

As in continue to talk to them over text before then?

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mother_russia 7w

Cause we were talking for a three weeks before our date, like every single day with goodnight texts(and sometimes Goodmorning ones), and got along great. I just got shy on our date cause she’s really pretty and it wasn’t until the end(when we made out a bit) that I was able to makes jokes more naturally