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Why do men think it is so difficult to date women? I showed her I can be there emotionally and the attraction is through the roof.
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Anonymous 19h

Some women are difficult, a lot of us aren’t. Some guys meet a difficult one and assume we will all be the same bc people of both genders but especially certain men have a hard time seeing the other gender as humans and unique individuals

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Anonymous 20h

I think it’s because they want to find their soulmate as soon as they enter adulthood, most people struggle to find good matches for them if they have more complex lives and interests

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Anonymous 16h

“why do men think it’s so difficult to date women? MY date is attracted to me, so everyone else should have this same experience, right?”

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Anonymous 18h

Broski I’m 5’4 I can be there for anyone emotionally doesn’t change the fact that girls don’t fw shorter dudes

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Anonymous 18h

Some of us are just considered ugly and women look at a guy’s looks before considering personality. I’m not saying looks is all they care about but that’s the first they notice before even giving them a chance to know them imo

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Anonymous 17h

Lol, I think you asked this in the wrong group there bud?

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Anonymous 17h

Idk maybe because some of us have had different experiences and showed women we could be there emotionally and the feelings weren’t reciprocated

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Anonymous 20h

Some guys aren’t capable of that rn in their lives so when women ask for it they can’t promise it so it makes it difficult

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

Shouldn’t be dating if you’re not emotionally available. Fix yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

When was I talking about me? 😭They asked why men find dating women difficult bc he said he was there emotionally. Some men just aren’t there emotionally which is why they find it difficult to date. They can’t provide basic empathy

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

I don’t need fixing thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

they weren’t referring to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 16h

Unless they meant it as a separate comment then it shouldn’t be directed at me to “fix myself”

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 16h

Especially if this question is prob something men should be answering but they’re asking women…so

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

that particular part of the comment uses what’s known as the “indefinite” you. not literally you, but anyone reading it whom it may apply to. in this case, the original comment’s “you” applies to people who are dating while emotionally unavailable. if that’s not you, then it isn’t directed at you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 15h

That’s why I said it was prob better separate or in a clarity. Still makes sense. But like I said a bunch of them are going to date and then question why when they aren’t emotionally available. I’m sure they know they need to fix SOMETHING by now I hope

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