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How do I make meaningful friends? I have so many friends but it feels one sided bc no one does the same for me. Ik it’s pointless to expect a lot, but it feels like I’m a second choice friend. How do I but be that?
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Anonymous 1d

I have found my close friends through similar interests. One of my best friends we met because I pointed out we had the same water bottle at an event. Often I don’t look for friends we just kind of bump into each other’s lives and then it’s like we’ve been friends for years

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Anonymous 18h

Find a high maintained friend… that’s all ima say

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

What does that even mean

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4h

I think they meant maintenance lol. and i agree. Its basically someone who you need to spend a lot of time with and put in (equal) effort into the relationship in order for them to feel fufilled in it. Those generally grow into ones that you can be longer distance from later

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2h

yessss like i have friends and we hang out like once or twice a year that’s IT we talk maybe once every few months but then i have friends i see on a weekly basis it’s mostly just like i mean u needa find someone that wants that type of friendship that constant interaction and social battery!

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