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Ask Women 6w
I don’t understand all this people saying: “you ought to find out if he has a girlfriend?” Like… WHAT?!… if he does have GF it’s HIS RESPONSIBILITY to say something! Since when is it one’s responsibility to find out someone else’s relationship status?!
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Ask Men 6w
Should have put this here
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Anonymous 6w

When I was single(not anymore) I would try to find out for my own wellbeing. I’ve been in situations where I would make a move expecting that if the other person is taken they’d say so and sometimes they don’t say anything. Then I’m involved in a couples drama and I personally hate that. Even if I didn’t know I felt like shit. people are fucked up

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Anonymous 6w

So what? If you wanna figure out if the person has a significant other then just ask? I don’t go around telling everyone I have a girlfriend, but if someone asks I tell em

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Anonymous 6w

I think it was only one person who said that and got downvoted, and OOP worrying about it in their original post, but yeah, I agree with you.

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Anonymous 6w

What was the post?

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Anonymous 6w

Yeah im op and i realized how creepy it would be to ask someone else about him. Im starting to wonder if i should just forget about him cuz everyone says anything i could do is weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

It was about a girl who likes her coworker. And she was asking about how to make a move on the guy she works with. Most of the comments were like the ones I mentioned above!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

The post is still there?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Not her coworker. Someone at his job that she goes to as a costumer

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Which is really awkward to ask someone out while they’re working

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Not my coworker a boy who works in the building next to my job

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

I’d just ask him. I’m a guy and while I don’t really have experience in service work, if a girl asked me out, even if I wasn’t interested in her I’d be flattered.

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