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I’m a 23 year old guy who has never dated anyone. I’ve had a few situationships but never officially dated. I’m honestly not ashamed of this at all and content with it. But would most women see this as a red flag?
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Anonymous 16h

For me it wouldn’t be a red flag unless you were desperate to find someone. Bc you’re clearly not, you’re good

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Anonymous 14h

The fact that you say you’re content with yourself is a green flag. However, I’m at the point where I notice that men w/o much relationship experience lack some of the skill sets and understandings that I offer as a formerly chronically monogamous lady. So while not a rd flag, we may not be compatible for those reasons (but I’m always open to give things a shot!) (except republicans!)

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Anonymous 11h

As someone who is trying to avoid a situationship I will absolutely avoid someone who has only chased situationships. That’s like signing up for heartbreak… so in a way… yes

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Anonymous 17h

def not. you’re good.

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Anonymous 6h

It’s only a red flag if you are hating on women like “I can’t find someone who has deserved to date me because I’m a high value man.” Having not dated is totally normal and not at all a red flag.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

Glad to hear that, used to be ashamed of it for a long time but I’m honestly kinda proud that I’ve rejected some ladies and kept myself single for the right lady!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

Thank you! I feel like I’ve been able to have such an easier time talking to women and getting more attention since I’ve let go so much.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4m

wait explain what you mean by lack skill sets, emotionally, physically, actively? elaborate please

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