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Ask Women 19w
So I’m talking to this girl for about 3 weeks now, she told me she was gonna hang out with her girlfriends. Flaked in them, and hung out with 3 dudes instead. And never told me or them about it. What should I do?
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Anonymous 19w

At 3 weeks in she doesn’t owe you anything

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Anonymous 19w

Three weeks is not that much. Do you really like her?

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Anonymous 19w

leave red flag asf

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Anonymous 19w

Time marches on brother

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Anonymous 18w

Life uh…finds a way

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Anonymous 19w

Not loyal in the talking stage is a 🚩

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19w

Yea I do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

Well, I'd say talk to her about it. It sounds like she's not afraid to make her own decisions but maybe she didn't know it would bother you. But again, three weeks isn't very long. I don't blame her for not acting like you're exclusive or something.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19w

It’s still the fact that she acted like she was really carrying and was really into me and wanted this to work out. I’m more concerned about the communication aspect because she still says that she wants something with me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

It's been a couple weeks and you're talking about this situation like this is your wife of years. I think you should take a step back.

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