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My gf invites me over to stay the night frequently but doesn’t want anything physical even cuddling, is it too much to ask to cuddle?
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Anonymous 1w

No and maybe she's nervous? Did you guys just start dating?

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Anonymous 1w

Something like that is reasonable to want but not to demand. You should talk to her about it and see if what she wants in a relationship aligns to what you want in a relationship and consider what makes you both happy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Yes a month ago

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Maybe ask what you can do to make her feel comfortable then ask

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

a month is NOT very long chill out

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