i’m a woc of indian origin and mostly attracted to white guys. But i’ve noticed i’m not really a white guys ideal type. That kinda sucks cause i have a very narrow range of features i actually am attracted to. I often get called pretty tho. am i cooked
Maybe ask yourself why it is you developed such specific preferences. Also recognize that you are a women with a racial preference and accept that a lot of shitty men have racist preferences too
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Anonymous39w
Y’all have bad PR you’d be better off dating other men of color if you don’t like Indian men. Idk why but I get a lot of interest from south Asian women and I never expected it
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Anonymous39w
No there’s a good bit of white men that are bound to like woc. Of course we have the short end of the stick being woc with non Eurocentric features but some do see the beauty in our unique traits that still make us beautiful
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Anonymous39w
You’ll be fine
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Anonymous39w
My Indian friend is dating a white guy!
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Anonymous39w
same I’m not my types type
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Anonymous39w
See I’m an Indian man myself and prefer white Women but I don’t constrict myself to just them. I’ll date whoever as long as me and her click
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Anonymous39w
Wdym you’re not “a white guys ideal type?”
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Anonymous#439w
or maybe i don’t wanna have to force myself to date outside my type when i clearly don’t fit the racist rep the internet attributed to my ethnicity
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AnonymousOP39w
You mean the type that if anything is going to be more likely to be racist and have racist family. And the type that was likely influenced by racist ideas you grew up with? 😂
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Anonymous#639w
I just think it’s a little hypocritical to be like “no white man wants me because of my race!” Meanwhile you strictly only like white men
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Anonymous#639w
I don’t think it’s racist to have a preference
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Anonymous#739w
Mmm it can be if you exclude races. Either bc if internalized racism or straight up racism of other ppl
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Anonymous#739w
I meant racial*. But I think a lot of times those preferences are based in underlying racism, so
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Anonymous#239w
accusing me of internalized racism without knowing i’ve previously dated men of color (and had a great time) based on a post where i’m simply stating a preference is insane behavior . it’s practically impossible to control what and who you’re attracted to