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On Saturday my long distance bf and I got into a fight on the phone bc he isn’t sure about me and then wanted to hang up to go to a party. Am I right to be upset?! Like u just said u aren’t sure and are going to be around a bunch of girls. I hung up
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Anonymous 1w

Sounds like he wanted a reason to see other people for the holidays. Why was he more in a rush to go to a party than talk about your feelings in your relationship?

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Anonymous 1w

Why are you dating a man you don’t trust?

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Anonymous 1w

U sound totally normal and not a psycho insecure bitch to be in a relationship with

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I love him and I’m rebuilding my trust back. I’ve never cared if he goes out but like right after we get into an argument about you not even being sure about me didn’t feel good

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I feel like we’re going to need more context than that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Thanks

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

You’re a bitter one huh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

In the beginning of our relationship there was some trust broken. A month before officially dating he was still in contact and receiving nudes from a past hook up girl while staying at my house every night with me. Then a month into dating he was dming a girl for her number and they finally stopped talking when he said he had a gf and she didn’t feel comfortable anymore. Then he saw a girl at the bar that he was in love with and told me how beautiful she was and his feelings came back and

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

She means something still to him. All of this kind of set the stage of making me feel insecure and like I’m in competition with other girls. Now fast forward 6-8 months, he still says he isn’t sure about me and our relationship and doesn’t know what the future holds.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Also, while he was staying at my house every night he was still messaging girls to get coffee at a coffee shop and study and stuff like that, which may be friendly but still odd. Idk it’s a lot sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Ahh, that’s the kind of context that changes everything

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I would’ve dropped him after the first thing, and if it seems like he’s not stopping you should do it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Like after the nude photo thing while we were talking and sleeping over or which part? Yeah, he doesn’t really seem to be stopping. I just don’t trust any girl in his phone right now and I don’t want to feel crazy or controlling but we have fighting more about this stuff lately

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I’m sorry dude, if you want I can be here if you need someone to listen to

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Listen* not listen to

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