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I need honesty My bf and I broke up on good terms bc he felt tied down and I was too attached. He’s v genuine and we were great but he’s followed 60 girls going to his uni within a few days after, blocked my snap, changed his whole insta. Is this normal??
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Anonymous 1d

Don’t tie yourself to a boy who didn’t want you tied to him. You are so above whatever he is doing, and you will find someone who loves and cherishes your attachment. That is not this boy!!!

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Anonymous 1d

No

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Anonymous 1d

no, but what can you do? should make it easier to move on, at least

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Anonymous 1d

Why would that be normal

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Anonymous 20h

Ima be so real with u college changes ppl like ppl that “wouldn’t hook up with randoms” goes out the window is all about being free and exploring please don’t reach out find better and find ur peace that is NOT normal/right

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Anonymous 1d

Is this a normal breakup reaction? He’s not the kind of guy to hu w someone random and we said we’d love each other regardless of what happens but this hurts. Should I ask him ab it when I see him and how? What does this mean?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Reminder, he felt tied down. You were too attatched. This feels like partially that you’re still attached to him. Also no this isn’t a normal breakup reaction but tbf when a guy breaks up when he realizes he’s tied down he does tend to go a little more wild, never this wild though this is a bit crazy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

But yeah, you guys broke up. This, and im going to hold your hand when I say this: is not your problem. As someone said above, there isn’t anything you can do abt if. The only thing you can do is choose to stay and watch him, or look away and look forward.

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