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Why don’t men date anymore?
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Anonymous 1w

Honestly, most women ain’t worth the trouble. Many will throw away good men because they’re “boring”. Many others are cheaters. Many others are gold diggers. Many other are not looking for commitment. All that together with the hardship of meeting women in a setting that fosters romantic approaches, makes it REALLY difficult to date.

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Anonymous 1w

Because we live in a lustful society nobody cares about being faithful to one person anymore 😪

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Anonymous 1w

I mean many do???

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Anonymous 1w

Why are you posting here? Go to Ask Men.

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Anonymous 1w

If you want my whole honest answer as a man it’s because I know I’m too much of a lover in a world that kicks down on people who love too hard. I fall in love too easily. I always end up getting hurt in the end. It’s not worth the pain anymore. Dating these days suck. People in general, men & women alike, are too selfish. No one is willing to actually be romantic and date. The ones that are too few. It’s nearly impossible to sift through all the toxicity to find someone genuine.

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Anonymous replying to -> og_littlepenis 1w

People are too good at faking it until they don’t need or want you anymore and then you get tossed aside as if your feelings were nothing more than a toy to them. It fucking hurts as someone who genuinely cares about people. It’s not worth dating anymore. Or at the very least it’s not worth perusing anymore. I’m open to dating, but I’m not putting myself out there to get hurt for the nth time. If you want to approach me and shoot your shot, I’ll give you every ounce of my attention to see if

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Anonymous replying to -> og_littlepenis 1w

There’s something there worth exploring but in the meantime, I’ll just be chilling waiting.

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Anonymous replying to -> og_littlepenis 1w

Oh my gosh that’s so sad 😞

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Ehh it is what it is. Just gotta ride the wave of life and hope for the best.

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Anonymous replying to -> og_littlepenis 1w

A lover who has no respect for women. Fascinating

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Maybe no respect for you but that would only be because you’ve done something to lose my respect. I respect everyone until they give me a reason not to

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Anonymous replying to -> og_littlepenis 1w

The way you behave on this site is inherently deeply disrespectful to women, but every single time anyone pointed out you shut them down

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I’m sorry but how have I shut you down exactly? I’m allowing you to talk and voice your opinion, aren’t I? I am in no way shutting you down. You’re allowed to have your opinions. I’m allowed to have mine. I’ve met plenty of wonderful people on here, women included, who I have had awesome conversations with - privately and publicly. I only actually disrespect people when they deserve it. Low hanging trolling, in my opinion, isn’t disrespectful. It’s dumb yes but not disrespectful because it’s

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Anonymous replying to -> og_littlepenis 1w

An online app and you can simply walk away or ignore me. When someone is genuine, I’m genuine back. It’s that simple.

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Anonymous replying to -> og_littlepenis 1w

Again, you think how you treat all the women here don’t matter bc it’s online. But no man who actually respects woman is respectful to them IRL but disrespectful online

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

lol love how you said “treat all the women” after I already explained that I’m nice to people (men and women) who are nice and an asshole troll to people (men and women) who deserve it. I have plenty of friends on here that are women and they’re honestly my favorite people. Hell, my closest friends irl are also all women. I’m sorry that the narrative you’re trying to construct isn’t holding much weight

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Anonymous replying to -> og_littlepenis 1w

You CONSTANTLY speak over women here, and REFUSE to stop when asked, even asked respectfully, so that’s bs.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I would argue you’re the one speaking over me right now but I’m cool with it since you’re entitled to your own voice and you’re allowed to publicly speak on a public social media platform

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Anonymous replying to -> og_littlepenis 1w

I’m speaking over you BECAUSE ITS ASK WOMEN. You have stated you’re not a woman and we have told you time and time again it is SO disrespectful for men to come into places women are means to talk and speak over them. It’s one thing to respectfully contribute and quiet down if asked, but you spam and ignore women when we tell you this

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I’m sorry but it’s quite literally impossible to speak over someone through text on a social media platform lol it just is. I contribute because I love women so much and I like sharing views and opinions with women. I think women are so awesome and kick so much ass. I troll the trolls on here and answer genuinely when it’s a genuine question. It’s really that superficial

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Hurmmm… why would women know why men don’t date?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I didn’t even bring that up but yeah that basically sums up this entire post lmao. This is the one post that is specifically geared towards a man answering it and #3 is in here triggered into oblivion over it

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Anonymous replying to -> og_littlepenis 1w

They just want to be part of the “popular” crowd of shaming you because it makes them feel part of something.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Aahhhhhhaaahahahahah you’re gonna be POP-U-LAR!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

As if men are worth the trouble when women aren’t. Men aren’t any better or worse than women. Many will throw away good women because they're "boring". Many others are cheaters. Many others are gold diggers. Many other are not looking for commitment. All that together with the hardship of meeting men in a setting that fosters romantic approaches, makes it REALLY difficult to date. Sounds familiar right? Everyone has problems and people need to stop making it a gender issue.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

This isn’t the battle of the sexes. The question was “why don’t men date anymore?”. Don’t get your panties in a twist because something is being said that you don’t like. Why don’t MEN date, responses of MEN that don’t date have the floor. If you aren’t these group of many women then it shouldn’t bother you. The ones who are bothered are typically the ones doing what has been written.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I am also a guy. I was just bringing to light the generalization being made about “most” women. Most women are not like that. “MEN that don't date have the floor.” This is ask women, so why are men answering?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

And I’m a woman. As to the reason why this is being posted here, ask the OP. It’s obvious that women aren’t only on Ask women hence why you’re here too.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I never asked why it was being posted, I asked why men were answering. Maybe the OP wanted women’s opinions on a thing about men. I am here to ask questions, not answer them. That is what ask men is for

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Bro is out here thinking he’s gonna white knight himself into some DMs with YikYak girls 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> og_littlepenis 1w

I have a girlfriend bro. Don’t worry about me

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Trust me bro, I’m not lol

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Anonymous replying to -> og_littlepenis 1w

Thanks man. I appreciate that

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

You’re making assumptions of the OP. The question is being asked on the wrong platform because again, as I’ve said previously— only men know why they don’t date anymore.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I never assumed, I said “maybe” because I simply don’t know what the OP was thinking. If you could stop trying to tell me what I am saying or doing that would be great though, thanks

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

You made the decision to comment your opinion which means you should have had forethought that you’d have someone disagree with what you said. Making the statement of “Maybe the OP wanted a women’s opinion on a thing about men”, that’s an assumption. If you took the time to read through the comments, more men have been present and answering the question. If there weren’t any men answering it, it would just be women making assumptions about why men don’t date anymore.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Oh that’s bs plenty of people are in happy monogamous relationships

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I don’t mean nobody literally. Just seems a lot harder to find.

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