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Ask Women 8w

sage_lemon

 So I(21F) have been dating my boyfriend(22M) for over a year. I always put effort into seeing him but he never puts in the effort to see me. Saturdays are the only night im able to go out, but now tomorrow he’s going to his friends party+ more in replies
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Anonymous 8w

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Anonymous 8w

Yea he clearly doesn't care or respect you enough. Personally I don't see a reason in continuing to date him because at this point its just sounding like a waste of time

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Anonymous 8w

/gig in our town. This friend has disrespected me multiple times and I have told my bf I don’t feel comfortable around this certain friend of his. My bf said he would cut him off weeks ago after what his friend said to me but is now willingly going to his friends party/gig instead of being with me. Aita for being mad?

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Anonymous 8w

Yeah you need to move on and burden someone else with your bullshit. Let that man live and love someone else

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Wth is your problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

Because I've been on the receiving end of crazy bitches like this and it's never worth it. They want to juice you for all your worth, abandon your whole life and everyone that means anything to you, then cry victim when you don't. FUCK that shit. Find someone mature and compatible, not a fucking soulsucking succubus

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Yeah you definitely have some unresolved issues. I let my boyfriend do whatever he wants, I don’t bother him, I pay almost everything for him, and never give him issues over doing what he wants and who he wants to hangout with. Just this one time which is why I asked for advice. Sorry not sorry lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

You’re projecting like crazy bro. You should try and work through your stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> sage_lemon 8w

If your boyfriend said he’d cut him off over what he said to you then no, you’re definitely not the asshole, not only did he not cut the guy off but is now ditching you to go to his event? I will also say, as someone who just got out of a relationship where it was always me putting in the effort to see the other person it’s rough, it’s really rough, and I didn’t realize how much it had fucked with me mentally until it fell apart and was over

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