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Hey I am a social guy in college, I try to talk to everyone but idk how to say if I want to get to know a girl or if someone wants to know me. Do I just introduce my self to women in my classes just as I would guys then one day say we should hang out?
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Anonymous 17h

I don’t want to make them uncomfortable or feel trapped I just want to try to take things slow without making anyone feel creeped out, also I have very mild autism so that impacts my social skill recognition a bit

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Anonymous 15h

Tell someone if u like them and ask if they’d wanna hangout

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Anonymous 16h

Yeah that totally works! Ask if they want to study with you or something too!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

But like wouldn’t that creep her out or make things awkward?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

If she likes u back no. If she doesn’t then you know. Obviously timing is important but if u see her u could be like hey can I talk to u for a minute if she’s on the way somewhere - then compliment her tell her u like her and ask if she’d wanna hangout sometime

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

I don’t think it’s particularly creepy unless you’ve literally never spoken with her before and in that case it’s more weird or odd than creepy.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 15h

I feel like it would be like a betrayal of her trust or come across as being friends with her just to ask her out and I don’t feel well doing that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

If you were just trying to date her sure, but you said yourself, you’re a social guy who likes making friends. If your intentions is to see if she and you might be compatible that isn’t just befriending her for no reason. Especially if you don’t stop being friends with her if it doesn’t work out.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 15h

I just don’t know how to be friends if it doesn’t work out, of course I would want to but idk if they would and I don’t want to stress them out I’m just very new to asking people out in person

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Definitely start off just normal and friendly and kinda feel her personality out a little bit and then as you maybe become closer friends ask her to hangout just the two of you. You don’t even have to make it obvious that you like her yet, but maybe after that then you can open up about how yiu feel. I think she’d appreciate that much more than just suddenly asking her out out of nowhere yk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

I don’t think you need to worry about that now. Just focus on making friends and if something happens, something happens

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 11h

That’s kind of the thing I CANT pick up when something happens so idk how to tell if someone likes me back and stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

That’s a totally different story entirely

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Like don’t think about that. If you like someone that’ll be a different con

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

I think it’s hard for guys to not come off as creepy now but as long as you give off good vibes and don’t be too forceful with anything girls want to be nice!!

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