Both! He kept talking about how he feels like he needs therapy because he realized how he’s been treating me (the four horsemen if you will) and I admitted to him that I KNOW he needs therapy because I do nothing to warrant said behavior from him. So once I figured out my budget for the rest of the year and moved some things around, I told him we can shop together for a therapist, he chose one and now we are all set to go!
I haven’t been to therapy in over four years myself because of the cost but I’ve also been in therapy since I was very young and so I know a lot already where as my boyfriend has never been to any sort of therapy so I figured I could help him out this round. 🖤 I’ll go back eventually but right now, he’s gotta do the work himself and since he’s covering the house bills and I take care of the car bills, I had a little extra to be able to get him in to therapy for a bit and I’ll be ok💞