Ask Women on Yik Yak | How do you avoid not feeling guilty of leaving a partner who did a lot for you but also did a lot to hurt you? He always makes that point when I try to leave & I feel so bad everytime.

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Ask Women 3w

How do you avoid not feeling guilty of leaving a partner who did a lot for you but also did a lot to hurt you? He always makes that point when I try to leave & I feel so bad everytime.

Anonymous 3w

Fuck him. If a man tries to make you feel bad for the things he did for you, they weren’t for you they were for him. Take it from someone who knows. I left scared, I left without nothing and not knowing a damn what to do. Leave him.

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Anonymous 3w

that’s straight up manipulation. if you need to leave then you need to leave. put your foot down and stand up for yourself. it’s not gonna be easy but some of the most important decisions you make for your life are going to feel like challenges.

Anonymous 3w

He only does the good things to make sure you stay longer / have a hard time deciding to leave

Anonymous 3w

you deserve so much better than someone who makes you feel guilty for wanting to escape. fuck this guy. it’s going to be so hard but please reach out to your support system and tell them about this if they don’t already know, and make sure they know your plan for when you leave. but i think getting out of this will benefit you so much - someone who was in a similar guilt tripping situation last year

Anonymous

wing_leader 3w

I say thank you, I’ve learned a lot, grown a lot, but I think I need to do some growing on my own. You can say/think I’m ungrateful but I’m telling you now, I’m not ungrateful. I’m so thankful to have had the chance to love you, and be loved by you. It was an honor. Then block and ghost

Anonymous

#5 3w

*thought I’d add a script to your comment

Anonymous

#5 3w

I am highly confused.