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what’s a boundary in your relationship with people of the other gender?
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Anonymous 5w

No boundaries, but we have rules. 1. No kissing, sleeping (in a sexual context), oral with members of the other gender or the same gender 2. We tell each other when or if we plan on seeing our exs (more for me because I’m friends with some of my exs (we ended on mutual terms and were both in happy separate relationships) 3. If a person of the opposite gender approaches us with flirtatious intent we mention our partner or send them an SOS to get us out of there if they’re not getting the hint.

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Anonymous 5w

No exchanging nudes, flirting outside of a joking manner, kissing, cuddling, anything further than that Applies to all genders, I’m bi and prefer to date bi people

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I lied. Boundary 1: if we yell/curse at each other during an argument I leave the room/hang up/ and we resume talking after we’ve calmed down Boundary 2: if we make our partner scared and they tell us we take time to reflect so we don’t become defensive Boundary 3: we use “I feel..” and “radical honesty” to address where we feel we aren’t showing up in our relationship

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