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Ask Women 17w
Hi...im not sure what to do? I love my boyfriend but I know he's not my person, however I am hesitant to leave not because I don't think I'll find better but I am tired of starting over and exposing my body to another person.
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Anonymous 17w

If you cannot look past some things now, you will eventually break up in the future, and you’ll have to expose your body to another person in the future. You’re back at square one, just later down the line.

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Anonymous 17w

This is the first relationship ive been in after two years and its been 7 months

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Anonymous 17w

How old are you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Girl come on. If you love him and he treats you well and you are happy then don’t leave him. Even if u think u won’t marry him you never know

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

Honestly it doesn’t matter anyway. If you already uncomfortbale imagine what th next 50 years gonna feel like. Plz think abt ending it cuz I promise you’ll find someone who will respect your what’s and needs and it will make u so much happier

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17w

Thats true but there's already things I'm not sure I can look past and I don't want to feel like I wasted my time or his time

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17w

Im 21, I'm just afraid that if I do end it I might spend the rest of my time trying to find someone that is all that and more. He does respect my wants and needs and does make me happy and I don't want to be greedy if that makes sense?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Yeah I get that. I’m in exactly the same spot with transferring colleges and it so tough I can’t imagine going thru this abt a boyfriend. Idkkk I guess my advice would be if u really don’t see a future it better to end it now and maybe be behind a year (or maybe it don’t effect u and u find a perfect guy immediately) rather than wishing and in 20 years end it and then u left with no one

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Perfect doesn’t exist you make the love. Movies have it so wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

I know this is hard to hear but 21 is so, so young. You have plenty of time. You'll meet so many more people than you can imagine. I'm not saying leave your current relationship right now, but don't think you'll be alone forever if you're single at 21. You have so much time.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17w

I don't think im gonna be alone forever I just don't want to keep feeling like im wasting my time with different men and continuously giving myself away to them to only find out they aren't the one

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Sorry that this is so cliche, but if you feel like you're giving yourself away – as in, it's hurting you or you're losing something by being with these men – then that feeling should tell you right away that they aren't the one for you (unless that feeling is something that was sort of set up in your mind through your upbringing).

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