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I’m a man in his 20s who has never had a real relationship, does this make me more or less attractive to women?
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Anonymous 2d

in the easiest way to explain it, it’s the same way as going to apply for a job like if you have no experience it’s iffy if you’ll be a good fit but if you have too many short term commitments then how do they know you’ll stay, so for someone who also has no experience might be good but for someone who knows what they want might not be

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Anonymous 2d

Less

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Yes to clarify, I have not hooked up or anything either, I’ve just been focused on academics/career goals for a few years and am putting myself out on the market late in life

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

yeah, there’s nothing really wrong with that like girls just want someone who looks subjectively attractive and someone with a good personality and a good heart if you have those then you’ll be fine

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Ok, cool. Thanks!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

It definitely depends on if you know how to treat a women or not. It can be a turn off if we have to teach you or tell you how to do things or ways to show your appreciation and love. If you show effort with wanting to learn (like asking questions) and taking initiative in the learning then that’s a different story

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

I mean, I am looking for a partnership that’s very mutually beneficial and I am really excited to show love to someone when I meet the right person, so I do plan to ask a lot of questions to make sure I get it right. That being said, I am very nervous about physical stuff and will likely need guidance at first, but I like to think I’m at least taking the right approach given the circumstances.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

Reasoning please?

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