big difference from putting in a tampon (least sexy activity on earth) to getting intimate with someone where you will hopefully be turned on. the landscape down there is different when the blood is flowing

18

Not saying it’s the same for you but when I first starting using tampons in middle school I literally sobbed and couldn’t do it bc it hurt and had to have my mom do it for me while I was sobbing (idk if that’s weird but that’s what I wanted). Now I’m the complete opposite

5

this was a big problem for me when i started! the answer is patience and a lotttttt of silicone-based lube. start w missionary!

3

might need a lot of foreplay

2

Start with one finger as you play go up with a finger

0

you can have all the little peen boys

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