Ask Women on Yik Yak | So the girl I’m talking to has a lot of “experience” and I have none aside from a few kisses in HS (I’m 24 now ☠️). How do I even bring that up? Do I just go for it and hope it goes well or talk about it beforehand. (1/2)

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Ask Women 14w

So the girl I’m talking to has a lot of “experience” and I have none aside from a few kisses in HS (I’m 24 now ☠️). How do I even bring that up? Do I just go for it and hope it goes well or talk about it beforehand. (1/2)

Anonymous 14w

I would just be honest with her that you’re feeling anxious about your lack of experience whenever you both are getting around to being intimate and ask her if she would be willing to be patient with you and show you what she likes

Anonymous 14w

i was exactly in your shoes once! tbh i was initially planning on just faking it til i made it 😭 but then i got nervous before every little thing and didn’t kiss him for so long and i reallyyy didn’t want him to get the wrong impression that i wasn’t into him. so i ended up just telling him i was a little nervous and if he was okay with taking it slow, def the right call! it’s good for her to know what you’re thinking and if she’s the right one it won’t change a thing :)

Anonymous 14w

I’ve heard a lot of women say that dudes with little experience are red flags, or that they’d rather guys with experience, or that a bad kiss turns them off completely. I’m basically in love with this girl. How do I not fuck it up?

Anonymous 14w

I’m into people either as experienced or less experienced than me ideally. Ask her to teach you what she likes. Be attentive to her desires. Having less experience isn’t a red flag, unearned confidence in one’s experience is. Almost ny woman would rather someone who didn’t know what they were doing but was eager to learn, rather than someone who was more confident than competent in the bedroom.

Anonymous 14w

might be a good convo to have, if you’re feeling anxious about it maybe she’ll reassure you. start by telling her how into her you are and your intentions, like where you want things to go. then just tell her how you’ve been feeling

Anonymous 14w

If she floret accept you or freaks out for you not having experience she’s def not the one. Also do you want to be with someone that sounds like a mattress? You deserve better.

Anonymous 14w

Speaking as a girl who has more “experience”, I’m talking to a guy rn who’s only been with 1 person. When Im talking to someone I’m interested in, I don’t care how many people they’ve been with as long as they don’t have any STDS or anything. I’ve slept with multiple guys but only dated 2 so I wouldn’t feel right judging him when I don’t know much about romance myself

Anonymous

#1 14w

I really hope she’s ok with this strategy. I am having super bad anxiety about this lol

Anonymous

OP 14w

And if she’s not? Then she’s not a good match I don’t have much experience either and I’d much rather have a partner who is patient with me and willing to communicate what they enjoy than someone who expects me to know everything right off the bat yknow

Anonymous

#1 14w

I hope everything works out but don’t be hard on yourself if it doesn’t, the right person will be willing to communicate with you and help you

Anonymous

OP 14w

That’s more of a stupid toxic internet thing, I’m sure girls exist like that in real life but it’s in no way the majority

Anonymous

#2 14w

Unfortunately two of my girl-friends are like this. They’re partly the reason I’m so anxious about this.

Anonymous

OP 14w

If it helps at all, literally no woman I associate with would think like that whatsoever

Anonymous

#5 14w

(I’m not saying there aren’t some shallow people out there that prefer to play the numbers game but it’s childish. Especially if she has enough to know exactly what she likes.) If she’s accepted you as a partner be honest about your experience. Practicing your head game wouldn’t hurt (if you can tie a cherry stem you’ll be fine, if not write the alphabet with your tongue over her clit.) Use middle and ring finger, not pointer for fingering.

Anonymous

#5 14w

Make her cum at bare minimum twice before even attempting to get inside and you’ll likely already be at the top of her list for partners. Listen to what she likes based on both words and sounds. Tell her you want to hear her real noises and that it’s important to you that you do (you don’t want her holding back or faking it).

Anonymous

#5 14w

If you hear an “I like that” sound, repeat the thing you just did, multiple times.

Anonymous

#6 14w

If she doesn’t *

Anonymous

#7 14w

This gives me hope thx

Anonymous

#2 14w

Honestly is really the best policy when it comes down to it, just don't hold her being experienced over her head, some people have a tendency to make people feel guilty over doing things outside of them

Anonymous

#7 14w

Like same, Im right now w a guy and he has just been w one girl bef. Thats completely fine tho. Because I do love him and thats what I focus on. I rlly love him and the last thing I wanna do is make him uncomfortable. If she truly cares she really wont take that personal.

Anonymous

#9 14w

Exactly! Idk if it’s a social media thing or what but body counts really don’t matter. They aren’t a thing that people need to worry about unless a person’s number is concerningly high like 12+

Anonymous

#7 14w

🤣🤣 I know several people in the 30s and a couple in the hundreds. I’m at 2 all the way, 8 to 3rd base.

Anonymous

OP 14w

why do you associate with people like that?

Anonymous

#5 14w

This guy just gave you all his secrets LOL. As a girl as long as you’re trying or asking us what we like I think you’ll be fine OP. It’s totally okay to be nervous !!

Anonymous

#1 14w

I was 20 with a 24 year old girl and I said the same thing. She took it well, but I just wasn't ready for it.

Anonymous

#11 14w

Naw I’m a woman, I know all the secrets 😏 and since I’m a girls girl I want another woman to enjoy her time.