Ask Women on Yik Yak | Yall I’m a woman but I neeeed to know WHY do some women make it a point to make fun of their exes new gf? Like saying they’re ugly or posting things to subtly shade them when they don’t even know you?

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Ask Women 14w

Yall I’m a woman but I neeeed to know WHY do some women make it a point to make fun of their exes new gf? Like saying they’re ugly or posting things to subtly shade them when they don’t even know you?

Anonymous 14w

Like girl ur MAN is the one who did u dirty😭 no need to hate on his next victim

Anonymous 14w

they’re insecure or jealous or bitter

Anonymous 14w

A weird way of coping ig

Anonymous 14w

no i always think this is so weird like those memes hating on your ex’s new gf/bf that is such weird behavior

Anonymous 14w

i did it bc he cheated on me w her & she knew we were together + had her own bf at the time the cheating happened

Anonymous 14w

I only did that in my head and to my best friends bc she knowingly helped him cheat on me and started making moves on him when we started going long distance and he was close to her and I wasn’t (don’t worry I obviously hated him a lot more but she’s still shitty and ugly in my book)

Anonymous 14w

I joke around with one of my high school friends about my ex and how his new girl lowkey looks like me. When I first found out I was upset and lowkey jealous but now I’m mostly just confused on what this new girl has that I dont or didn’t at the time of the breakup(he broke up with me in late January bc he “didn’t have time for a girlfriend”)

Anonymous

#6 14w

Okay that’s different and valid but what if she didn’t know you even existed and you were doing all that 😔

Anonymous

#6 14w

girl wtf we’re literally the same bc the exact same thing happened to me 😭😭😭 fuck that hoe idgaf

Anonymous

#6 14w

and him ofc but we’re talkibg abt the girl rn. but yeah its also fuck him

Anonymous

#1 14w

Right WARN HER

Anonymous

OP 14w

in my situation, the “what if”s don’t matter bc that wasn’t the case🤷 she DID know i existed & she STILL decided she was ok helping MY bf cheat

Anonymous

#7 14w

literally “oh but he was the one dating u, u should be mad at him, not her” girl fuck BOTH of them!! 😭

Anonymous

#10 14w

This is valid though. As long as you’re not attacking her or posting/reposting things aimed at her. I’m talking about when people make it a point to be like omg she’s so ugly haha cause when girls do that…no wonder he left them yaknow

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Anonymous

#10 14w

Also the “didn’t have time for a girlfriend” thing is so fucked but again it’s completely on him not her

Anonymous

OP 14w

Yeah I would never bash her publicly especially since me and my ex had no bad blood towards each other. I’ve actually had multiple people tell me that my ex is the ugly one 😂

Anonymous

#6 14w

The question had to do with when the new gf doesn’t know you. That’s why I said the what if part but You’re valid that situation is fucked.

Anonymous

OP 14w

Agreed! I am a little salty with him about that but it’s whatever. I’ve been talking to a new guy for about a month and it’s been going well. At least I don’t have to deal with being ignored all weekend and him not cumming or getting hard off me(tmi I know but I had to mention it cause it’s weird af)

Anonymous

#10 14w

So real Girl 9/10 times it’s the MAN that’s ugly the other gf doesn’t even have to be brought up😭

Anonymous

OP 14w

What makes it even funnier is that one of my mutuals knew my ex bc he was in a fraternity a couple years ago and even he thought my ex was ugly. Meanwhile this dude is gay 😂

Anonymous

#10 14w

No that’s valid too though. Anyone would be salty over that I know two other people going through the same thing where they say they don’t want a relationship and immediately jump to the next. It’s just an excuse to get away

Anonymous

OP 14w

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not perfect cause I did hookup with a dude a couple weeks after we had broken up and ended up in a relationship with a different guy not long after. That was more so me just craving attention. My ex was my first relationship so I didn’t know how to navigate a breakup or anything

Anonymous

#10 14w

Omg literally everyone does that don’t knock yourself for that please. I PROMISE so so many people hookup with randos right after being broken up with. PLUS you wanted a relationship, that ex “didn’t” so you went and found a man who did. Doesn’t matter how long it took. Good for you