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Am I wrong for feeling weirded out about the fact that my gf and her friend were thinking to go to a male show (one where guys dance shirtless and do some weird stuff on stage) a few months before she met me? My perception of ppl who go to those shows…
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Anonymous 1w

Are you fr? Get out off that puritan mindset! She wasn’t thinking of becoming a hooker. She was going to a strip club. It really ain’t that bad… you really need to take a chill pill STAT

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Anonymous 1w

It’s definitely weird but not surprising if she wasn’t seeing anyone. Those places are just for fun and shit. Weird but not the worst thing

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Anonymous 1w

She was single and hadn’t even met you yet. What’s the issue

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Anonymous 1w

… And strip clubs have always been of sex addicts, or desperate weirdos who can’t get any in real life

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Anonymous 1w

so this is a thing she thought about but did not do... quite a while before you guys were together... I'm not really seeing the issue

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Anonymous 1w

She never ended up going but they were thinking about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Cuz she said in the past one of her friends mom had gotten them a male stripper for her friends bday(again when she was single)😭, and my gf felt uncomfortable during him dancing shirtless. So I was like why would she voluntarily think about going to another similar show when she felt uncomfortable in the past?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Not really a puritan mindset, but I wrote above how my perception of ppl are who go to those shows and clubs. That’s why I feel that way

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

The issue is, is it not considered a weird thing to be doing even when single?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I wouldn't say so

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

The fact that I feel only desperate ppl go to those shows, not that she cheated or anything.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I mean that’s just how you feel tho not much she can do about that😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

So you’re just judging her character. Maybe you should break up and find a church girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I’m just asking if this is a weird thing to be doing and if there can be potential red flags that can come up later cuz of this, not that I’m judging her 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Then the answer to your question is no

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Yeah no, I don’t see how that’s a red flag when she did that when she was SINGLE. If she was in a a relationship, then maybe that would be slightly different.. but that’s not crazy single behavior

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

No

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Male Strip clubs are usually just where young single women go for fun. It’s not as desperate as you’re imagining

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