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Ladies is it really true that men who yearn are men who earn?
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Anonymous 5w

Men who yearn are just >>>>

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Anonymous 5w

Attractive* men who yearn, saying the quiet part out loud

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Anonymous 5w

Guy here: I think a lot of other guys seem to have a misconception that if you yearn will will earn by default. Not true. The yearning should be mutual. Like if you yearn for someone who isn’t into you, she still won’t be into you, and actually you could just end up making her uncomfortable. But yes it’s true, highly unlikely that acting disinterested will make her like you more, and if it does then honestly she might have some issues to work on

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Anonymous 5w

Yes

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Anonymous 5w

absolutely. make sure that your lady knows you yearn for her

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Anonymous 5w

yes, 100% absolutely. nonchalant guys are NOT it!

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Anonymous 5w

i’ve been yearning my entire life all of you bitches are fake as hell ☹️

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Anonymous 5w

Very much so.

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Anonymous 5w

Yep; love a romantic mf

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Anonymous 5w

Unfortunately not… I’m shy as fuck though so maybe that’s just a me problem.

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Anonymous 5w

YES.

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Anonymous 5w

YESSS! I dream of one day having a yearning man🥺😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

I would say: “attractive, wealthy, and tall men who yearn “. It’s 2025. Just being good looking ain’t cutting it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

“no guys im like literally a nice guy and you aren’t rewarding me for my fake niceness”

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Anonymous 5w

no. I’m saying men who are like this tend to just hermit inside. they don’t have a grip on the real world so they clearly don’t go out and talk to people. also not sure why you answered “no” as a man in ask women

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Anonymous 5w

also any man who calles women “bitches” bc they won’t date him. instead of doing some self reflecting. that’s VERY telling of why he’s single

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Anonymous 5w

the latter, yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 5w

When you find the right person you should cherish her, as she does you

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Anonymous 5w

Bruh it’s more than looks

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Anonymous 5w

This might be a crazy take but as long as you clearly take care of yourself it’s not hard to look good 😭

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Anonymous 5w

Yes that’s true, but I guess the problem I have with this framing is it gives people the idea that they have to be objectively good looking to find someone, when they just need to find someone who finds them good looking, and vice versa

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Anonymous 5w

People who think they will never find love due to their natural appearance either have other problems that they don’t acknowledge, or are reaching out of their league, or both

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I dont entirely agree, but I will agree that as long as you take care of yourself you will look good to someone

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

and I mean I’ve seen plenty of people who don’t take care of themselves find love

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 5w

they 100% have other problems. there are no leagues

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

There are kind of leagues. Nobody should really thing that way, but like if you only seek conventionally attractive people you will likely struggle more finding someone who likes you back for sure

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 5w

*think that way

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

The whole concept of leagues is really a matter of options. It’s harder to get people who are more highly sought after. That doesn’t mean anyone is objectively better or more beautiful, but it’s more about an aggregate perspective

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 5w

you don’t know me lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 5w

my bf is attractive and a great guy, he’s not wealthy or tall. stop generalizing women

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 5w

lol the boys in these comments are really proving my point 😂

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Anonymous 5w

I’ve seen some ugly ass people in loving relationships. You can find a partner who cares about you without being super hot

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