Anonymous #3 6d

What makes a woman sexually attractive to a man? All kinds of different things. There is a ton of variety that exists.

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Anonymous #3 6d

This is crazy inaccurate and there are so many examples. Media is an easy one. Women are made pretty much a certain way and that it. Men are also quick to tell actresses (who are gorgeous) what makes them ugly. You mention porn but women in porn are also generally the same unless it’s specifically fetish content (like a fat fetish or fetish for black women) which is white, long hair, skinny, big boobs, petite waist, big ass. You’ll find MUCH more variation in men when it comes to porn than with

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Anonymous #3 6d

Women. Yall just wanna be victims SO damn bad but it is not that reality. Men with and without beards— attractive. Men with and without hair— attractive. Skinny, buff, dad bod, even some large men— attractive. Tattoos or not— attractive. Long or short hair— attractive. The same CANNOT be said for women. Too fat? Nope. No ass? Nope. Too tall? Nope. Small boobs? Iffy. Body hair? Pass. Short hair? Iffy at best. Tattoos? Also gets more hate on women. So no.

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Anonymous #3 6d

Finding a woman attractive ≠ having sex with her btw. I know plenty of men who have sex with larger women bc they believe they’re easy due to low self esteem and turn around the next day insulting them.

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Anonymous jimmyincellerino 6d

What woman is getting 1000 men at her door in a year realistically? Also it sounds like you just surround yourself with shitty men. I know absolutely terrible men who still manage to get there dik wet atleast every months. Idk any women who fk 3 guys a day. And as I said on another post: sex ≠ attraction. Men will have sex with women they ain’t even attracted to just to have a warm body. It is NOT the same thing

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Anonymous jimmyincellerino 6d

Attraction is wanting to cuddle, complimenting, saving the non sexual selfies, making someone your background, making out, etc. and again, not false that women do have higher beauty standards than men and men are harder to please when it comes to looks

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Anonymous #3 6d

That’s because men are desperate whores but it’s not common to call men whores so we call them players

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Anonymous #5 6d

“men are desperate whores” you say? You probably have slept with more men than I’ve slept with women. I don’t appreciate you throwing out the word “whore” like that. Let’s go ahead and compare how many you’ve been with, then.

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Anonymous OP 6d

OP, you are aware that women say that there are few men who are actually attractive, right? There is a whole trend of women saying that it’s “rare” to find a man who is attractive, and the data from OkCupid (yes, it is flawed, but it is data) also corroborates this The fact remains that there are porn categories for ALL KINDS of women. Just because the beauty industry is harsh on women DOES NOT mean that men agree with their standards. Men are frequently attracted to women of different looks

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Anonymous OP 6d

Men express being attracted to women in different ways. It does not have to follow your highly specific criteria for a man to be sexually aroused by or sexually attracted to a woman.

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Anonymous #3 6d

Facts

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Anonymous #3 6d

Bro is spittin

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Anonymous #5 6d

The top 20% of men are “whores”

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Anonymous OP 6d

I see fat women, women w/ no ass or tits, in relationships all the time, often w/ a conventionally attractive guy

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Anonymous #3 6d

Yeah because celibacy results in sleeping with someone. Biological fact that men don’t care about attractiveness when it comes to sec

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Anonymous OP 6d

The top 20% of men

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Anonymous #3 6d

I literally just stated that attraction ≠ sex. But you’re boiling it all down to sex. And no. I haven’t seen that trend. But I have seen plenty of others. Big Boy trend. Tattooed Guys trend. Burly dude trend. Gamer boyfriend content. Plenty of hear-me-outs with non standard men. And even more so, when women do date these men, it’s men in the comments demanding how he pulled her or saying he must have money, etc. more often than women who typically don’t care. There are plenty of videos, and a

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Anonymous #3 6d

Buuuunch of shii on the Internet about the fact besties have different tastes in men. It’s a whole thing. Booktok and whatnot are also full of varying types of ideal men (usually hearing more towards tattoos or beards or very dad bod but still). It’s a lot in how you carry yourself for women.

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Anonymous #3 6d

Attraction is MORE than sex is what I’m getting at. I’m not talking about whether you’d have sex with someone— men will have sex with plenty of women, but whether you’d want to have a relationship with them. Whether you’d want to be seen with them. Go one dates. Be AFFECTIONATE outside of sex. That is ACTUAL attraction. Not “she makes my dik hard”

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Anonymous OP 6d

If a woman is making a man hard, yes, it is pretty reasonable to say that he is attracted to her. I guess you need to deny that men have sex with women they find attractive to continue this conversation? I wonder, do you sleep with men you don’t find attractive? Is this why you keep insisting that men do that?

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Anonymous OP 6d

Being attracted to a woman’s body or a woman’s face does not require adhering to the strict beauty standards set by the beauty industry. My whole point to you is that we should NOT comparing be comparing beauty standards this way. When we ask which men are attractive, we look at what men women like, not who the advertising industry hires. Likewise, we should focus on what men are attracted to, and there *is* a LOT of variety.

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Anonymous #3 6d

And you’re insinuating that women don’t have that variety or less of it, which is INHERENTLY NOT TRUE. You know who often designs video game characters? What about beer posters? Would you like to see some of the most like videos of women by men on TikTok? I can tell you that there would be common denominators with beauty standards— which btw, are set by men. So we just aren’t going to agree on this period. We are talking about different types of attraction

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Anonymous OP 6d

For the record, I disagree with the post you quoted, too. But I don’t agree that I have it so easy and that women are tripping over themselves to find any man because they’re attracted to such a huge pool of men. If that were the case, online dating would not be so hard for men. If that were the case, I wouldn’t feel so ignored and never complimented for my appearance by women (while women do receive these compliments far more often). You said TikTok. We wouldn’t hear “Chopped Man Epidemic”

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Anonymous OP 6d

We are moving towards gender equality. By judging everyone by their appearance more and making shit worse for everyone. But I would rather be able to easily get into a relationship (because men are attracted to a variety of women) and be approached instead of having to do the approaching.

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Anonymous #3 6d

Online dating is hard for *everyone*. I hear chopped more often when referring to women. “The only women who want me are chopped” and such. Men do get complimented— not as often as they should, but, a lot of compliments women get are from other women. Women are less inclined to compliment, even if they find them attractive physically because if they don’t know them emotionally and that they would want to consider dating them, they don’t want a man to get the wrong idea. That’s why women

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Anonymous #3 6d

Compliment WAY more when in relationships. We know we are attracted to them on a deeper level and that there won’t be any misunderstandings. I’m not saying men have it easy— just that they have it EASIER than women. The main thing standing in their way is themselves.

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Anonymous #3 6d

And if you’re trying to get swipes on a dating profile. 1. Your main pic should be by yourself and in good lighting 2. You should have a pic of you doing a hobby (bowling, painting, horseback, whatever) 3. Have information on your profile that women can start a conversation with like two truths and a lie, a funny story, 5 worst movies. Most women don’t swipe because the profile is BORING or god forbid it’s one that says “I’m 6’0 since that seems to matter” or something else condescending.

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Anonymous #3 6d

If men were safe to approach we would. It’s not all men but it’s enough for us to be cautious about approaching

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