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not_a_witch

I once dated a sweet guy that liked me, but didn’t like any of my hobbies or my friends. Obviously, I broke up with him, but occasionally I miss his stupid face. Should I summon him? Just for like… one night? Am I being stupid?
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Anonymous 22h

Don't do it

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Anonymous 20h

The stupid part was you acting like sharing hobbies is a prerequisite for a good relationship lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

Summon lego! Also do you like the new set I picked up?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

i think it’s fair to expect your partner to at least think your hobbies are cool or interesting, at least positive about it and not hating it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

I wouldn’t agree with that either only the not hating. You should be fine with your partner being neutral indifferent to your hobbies. There’s no shortage of people with lifelong marriages that don’t share hobbies or interests

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

all i’m saying is when you talk about it with them inevitably, you’d want them to be interested and curious. me and my partner have pretty much opposite interests but when we talk about them, we listen. we ask questions and are interested, despite us both never wanting to take part in them ourselves.

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