Anonymous #1 4w

But good luck finding a girl who wants to put up with that, you’d have to pay me a lot of money lmao

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Anonymous #1 4w

What if he seems like a regular dude tho?

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Anonymous OP 4w

Being an incel is not a regular trait😭

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Anonymous #1 4w

He could seem normal tho

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Anonymous OP 4w

Not if he’s a self identified incel

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Anonymous #1 4w

I’m a self-identified incel and I’m pretty sure most ppl wouldn’t realize it.

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Anonymous #1 4w

Self identified part-time incel. I’m only like an incel sometimes

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Anonymous #2 4w

U believe u can fix bad boys all of time tho

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Anonymous OP 4w

Who is “u?” Sure as shit not me. But you also need to understand that women are raised from the time we are kids being told it’s our job to “fix” men, and the other side of that coin is men being told that women need to “fix” them rather than that they should work on self improvement. Ultimately it’s deeply harmful and unreasonable to women and really disempowering to men. Ur grown bro fix ur own shit.

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Anonymous #2 4w

U like it tho. U like “fixing” us

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Anonymous #2 4w

Like how are you gonna be in this same nastyass cultural soup that is the patriarchy where we get told women have to do all the emotional labor for men and come out mad at women rather than the system that hurts them, and more indirectly hurts you too. Be so fr.

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Anonymous OP 4w

Tried to lay it out for you but seems you can’t read 💔💔

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Anonymous #2 4w

I just like debating 😭

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Anonymous OP 4w

Debating women specifically

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Anonymous OP 4w

Just go to therapy bro it’s too late for this shit

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 4w

I feel like therapy can only do so much. The root of unhappiness will still be there

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Anonymous OP 4w

You can learn how to deal with unhappiness in therapy. Everyone is unhappy at times. There’s not much you can do to stop that. So you can either wallow in it or put in the work to make it better.

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 4w

Here are truths I had to make peace with in therapy: • It is true that some people find me unattractive • It is true that some people are more attractive than I am, have more sexual opportunities because of that • If I work hard I can become more attractive, but not "the most" attractive • With work, I can be enough for someone

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Anonymous #4 4w

• work is hard • some people need to do more work than me, some less • If I start working today i'll have less work to do than if I start tomorrow What work? Listen to feedback, assume the best not the worst in others, diet, exercise, hygiene, join sports clubs, buy better clothes, essentially join society

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Anonymous OP 4w

Anyone who identifies with a misogynist hate group does not present as normal

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Anonymous #1 4w

Yeah not fully true. I have a loving wife. I'm still mad I hate to wait while others did not. Someone else was with my wife before me when she was 16. I got her at 30. Better than nothing, but... yeah. Nobody knows I feel this way, but telling others does not help

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Anonymous #4 4w

Yeah so having a whole wife and still being mad because she has an ex when she was a child is in fact weird and unreasonable and something to go to therapy about. I wonder how your wife would feel if she knew you thought she was “better than nothing?”

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Anonymous #2 4w

This is what people mean when they talk about incels being entitled.

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Anonymous #2 4w

Yeah. Seeing some people given so much more for reasons I feel are wrong and that I can never achieve hurts my feelings. I think that's not a crazy thing to feel. I do not think I'm entitled. I don't deserve anything. I have to work hard and earn what I get in a world that is not structured to give me any advantage. It's hard, sad, but not hopeless

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Anonymous #4 4w

What are you even yapping about

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Anonymous #1 4w

Feel free to dm me if you are genuinely confused and curious about how I feel. If you don't care, well then consider the things you've said. Think about why you are ok with being cruel to a stranger, and understand that when you put that out into the world it'll cone back to you

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