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Boyfriend of almost two years broke up with me the day after Valentine’s. Idk how to get back to my life properly, who has tips?
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Anonymous 4d

Focus on your career and personal health before jumping back into your love life. Any man worthwhile will seek you out when you’re at your most confident

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Anonymous 4d

It’s not much of a tip but advice ish. Time will heal all. Best thing to really do is to out and enjoy whatever you can in life. Friends ask you to go hang, do it. Family wants you to have dinner with them, go for it. Deep down you’ll want to say no since you’re sad, but you’d be surprised how much those who care for you can help make you feel better in the moments you feel your lowest.

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Anonymous 4d

Let yourself feel all your emotions, don’t hold ANYTHING in

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Anonymous 4d

Go no contact — dont give in

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Anonymous 4d

GO TO GYM‼️

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Anonymous 4d

Unfortunately, there’s no tip anyone can give you that’ll quicken the process. Allow yourself to grieve your relationship properly. Cry. Be sad. Scream. Be angry. Allow your family and friends to support you. Lean on those who love you. As time goes on, you will feel better. In the mean time, keep busy. Do not take any drastic or life changing decisions though (speaking from experience 💀) Dress up and go out. If you had hobbies, engage in them. If you didn’t, start exploring. It gets better❤️

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Anonymous 4d

don’t live your life in hopes that he’ll come back…and if he does, *never* take him back, know your worth.

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Anonymous 4d

Take a step back and just focus on yourself for a while

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Anonymous 4d

Did you at least get a valentines?

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Anonymous 3d

Focus on yourself. Live life one day at a time and try not to make and big decisions while you are still hurt!

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