Anonymous #1 1d

It’s literally piss. I hate it. My partner doesn’t mind but it disgusts and distracts me

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Anonymous OP 1d

And as this poll shows most women do not do this

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Anonymous OP 1d

Sounds like u got some self loathing to work on tbh. Its normal

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Anonymous #1 1d

It’s not tho like I’m in the 5 percent here. And even if it was, who cares. It grosses me out I want to know how to stop

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Anonymous #2 1d

That’s the thing I can’t. It’s activly making it harder to stop. I DONY WANT TO it completely ruins sex for me. It’s great you want to. But i absolutely do not

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Anonymous OP 1d

I think you should see a sex therapist who can help you deconstruct why you don't like it and help you tolerate squirting. unless you want to abstain from sex, theres really no way to get rid of it. that’s how your body functions. i did a quick google search and there are women like you on reddit that want to stop squirting but no one has found a legit way to stop. i feel like a mindset shift would be the most beneficial here. like learning how to live with it instead of stopping it

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Anonymous #2 1d

Girl I just don’t like it: I just want to stop: I don’t need to see a therapist for something I just don’t enjoy anymore than I need to see one to unpack why I don’t want cum in my mouth, some parts of sexare just not for me. It’s literally piss

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Anonymous #2 1d

It sucks theirs no way to stop. Ty.

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Anonymous OP 1d

you should see a sex therapist because unlike cum in mouth , squirting is something inevitable that happens & you have to learn to cope with it. to put it in perspective - i absolutely hate my body the same way you hate squirting. i think my body is gross. i hate showing people my body. i go to the beach in leggings and a shirt. it’s really hard for me to have sex being this insecure but im working with a therapist to learn how to cope and live with my body. it’s the same with your squirting.

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Anonymous #2 1d

That’s cool. You get help! But the thing is I know know therapist is going to be able to tell me piss is not gross and mess and annoying to deal with during sex, or that cum tastes ok and I should just have to swallow even though it makes me sick. Some parts of sex are gross and not for everyone and that’s ok.

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Anonymous OP 1d

Your therapist is not going to tell you to swallow if you hate that. Ultimately sex is about feeling good and doing what you want. If you really dont want to squirt pee before sex and dont push during penetration. There are pelvic floor exercises you can do too but it rlly sounds like you need to pursue getting help for this

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Anonymous OP 1d

you can lead a horse to water…

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Anonymous #1 1d

Thank you!

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Anonymous #1 1d

I mean ultimately I’m fine if I absolutely can’t stop it it’s just not something I enjoy at all so I would like to prevent it if possible. I don’t think it calls for therapy if you simply don’t want to deal with piss

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