
i’ve noticed a pattern on here of a lot of men asking about if (seemingly, to me) stuff unrelated to attraction is a turn off/is attractive/which is more or less attractive. and it’s a resounding “don’t care” every time. is it because (straight, i’m guessing) guys care about this stuff with each other when it comes to being friends? genuinely, i’m curious why this is. i’d say i think women are a lot more vibes-based when it comes to attraction than men (at least here) seem to realize