Anonymous #1 12w

that was my post and honestly i standby it i mean maybe my tone was harsh but entering your first relationship at 24 or 25 isnt bad its just weird for men to expect women to be virgins. i that age is a little late for anyone to be just starting out. its hard to know what you want without figuring yourself out. if the first person you meet is the person you marry then great, but high divorce rates show people arent that great at picking

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Anonymous #2 12w

or they feel like they have to somehow stay with this person since its person they “saved it for” as you put it.

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Anonymous #2 12w

I can see that it's just the wording that was very off putting. Could've just made it about men instead of insinuating that women with no relationship experience are the problem

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Anonymous #2 12w

the backlash i got was substantial given that i just think its so weird that people (including women) place so much emphasis on the concept of virginity, and creating a sex-stigmatizing culture. my intent was not to blame women for not being in relationships, just offering an opinion to some women who might be reading …

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Anonymous #2 12w

… and have a few ex’s and thinking she is “ran through” which is not the case.

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Anonymous OP 12w

a 17 year old and a 24 year old, neither of whom have ever been in a relationship, are just as trustworthy to give good relationship advice IMO. yes perhaps i was too harsh. im coming off of the political group where i butt heads with conservatives as all day so i may have still been in “high gear”

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Anonymous #2 12w

also for the record i did not delete the original post yik yak took it down

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Anonymous #2 12w

It’s still not childish and dating shouldn’t be rushed just so you can say you’ve been in a relationship

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