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ladies how do i handle getting ghosted? everything was fine and now im getting no response. helppp i feel terrible
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Anonymous 13w

Girl we going thru this together😭

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Anonymous 13w

When I was younger and dumber I ghosted several dudes I had gone on one date with and it was always because I suspected that they were wanting to be more physical than I was ready for. And none of them put a toe out of line in the way they treated me, but I was a late bloomer in that regard and did not know how to have conversations about sex yet (which suggests that I was in fact not ready to have sex). This isn’t necessarily it, but idk, I just figured I’d put that out there in case it helps.

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Anonymous 13w

Girl idk this happened to me too many times I give up on talking to ppl 😭

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Anonymous 13w

you’ve gotta just remind yourself that it’s their problem, not yours. and if you haven’t been talking for long, it’s not a huge loss. brush yourself off and find someone new, they weren’t right for you anyway!

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Anonymous 13w

Lowkey just crying it all out LOL. Because eventually, you’re always going to move on. And looking back on it you won’t even be able to grasp the fact that you once care. Sucks in the moment but you’ll be okay Queen

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

literally have known him for like a week and its the worst pain of my lifeee

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Mine was about 2-3 months and it was after I opened up to him about something. Didn’t even fucking open it (he has read receipts on) and just stopped talking to me💀 It’s not the worst pain but it just reinforces the fact that I’m probably gonna be alone forever cause I have certain boundaries that make finding love difficult

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

wait that's awful😭 im sorry girl. ive been left on delivered for like 5 hours and his snap score is still going up. wanna vomit

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

should i delete my last snap to him thats been left on delivered or wait and see if he eventually responds?😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Girl that’s nothing, he might just genuinely be busy😭 mines been 4 days so I don’t think there’s any going back from this😵‍💫

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

his snap score has increased sm tho. dont play w me LMFAOO💔😭 should i delete my last snap and move on? he's obviously ignoring me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

That’s a bit weird but I’d wait. I think your score can go up just by people snapping you. He might not be replying back to everyone

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

it says hes active tho :( it'd be nice to just delete the snap and detach completely unless he snaps back that he was busy or smth yk?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

I guess but most people wait 24 hours

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Ok fair. if i wake up and im still on delivered its on sight

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Omg this has been happening to me too! Like wtf where do these men find the time to talk to ALL these women on a deep level and the just ghost them?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13w

Yeahh I fight the urge not to send a message cussing him out cause the shit he knew about me.. then proceeds to do it himself

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