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At what point did you guys finally stop stalking your ex on social media? I don’t care for him at all anymore but I still feel the need to check every so often to see what’s he’s up to and idk if that’s unhealthy.
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Anonymous 11w

I want to know so badly how badly HE IS doing. But he’s officially so toxic to my head that I’m deliberately stopping myself when I want to look him up ugh. Just hit the 2 year mark since I caught his cheating and left

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Anonymous 11w

I stopped when I realized that it was putting me back in a hole and not allowing me to heal properly! The sooner the better

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Anonymous 11w

💓 you’ll stop eventually. No judgement, just pay attention to how you’re doing with your relationship to yourself and what’s getting in the way now. You got this. Maybe you need a longer period of grieving and allowing yourself to really mourn, fully. Sometimes those pathways get stuck when we try to get over it too soon.

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Anonymous 11w

After a few months so I could finally move on and did. Now im with someone better 😅

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Anonymous 11w

one of them a couple weeks (he asked to see me again and posted a pic with another girl rifht after so i was curious) and the other one none i absolutely ditched thinking about him

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Anonymous 11w

I never stalked them

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