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Is it bad for me to be very turned off by women who says they care about how much money a man makes? I feel like they should be attracted to me specifically, not what I provide for them (obviously I have to provide some, but both should provide equally)
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Anonymous 3w

I think that’s fair to not like. Personally, I don’t have a standard for how much money a man should make, except I would want him to be able to provide for himself.

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Anonymous 3w

I honestly agree with you. As a woman, I was never attracted to how much a man made, but more or so how he treated me and made me feel.

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Anonymous 2w

well if she wants a man who will fully provide for her then i think its completely justified (and obviously you would not want a woman like that), otherwise i think in most but not all cases it is more so about the work ethic it took to get there then the actual job (for example he got a hard degree and works in that field now vs he didn’t and still works as a waiter)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Yeah like obviously it’s fair to not want to date an unemployed loser who lives in his parents’ basement. It’s just disgusting to me when a man’s money directly affects how attracted she is to him. Like at that point just go marry a $100 bill 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> twirling_tornado 2w

than*

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