Anonymous #1 12w

Rlly?

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Anonymous OP 12w

Is that sarcasm? Sorry, I can’t tell 😭. As a guy, it’s definitely believable to me

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Anonymous #3 12w

I think it kind of sucks for both men and women, doesn’t it? Cuz it means more ppl are relying on dating apps or not trying/giving up.

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Anonymous OP 12w

Not really. Not everyone does and not all approaches are online. 45% is a small number

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Anonymous #3 12w

It’s close to half. Not exactly a crisis point…yet. Some of those ppl are using dating apps or don’t want to date, which is fine. It’s cause for concern tho, especially w/ dating apps not working for a lot of ppl.

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Anonymous OP 12w

so why do you think this is? do you think there’s a way to amend this if it’s concerning to you?

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Anonymous OP 12w

And why do you think it’s a concern and why not find ways to combat it?

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Anonymous #4 12w

I can only speak from personal experience and concerning the ppl Ik, but it’s lack of confidence. The easy answer is men need to just approach. Harder answer I think is to create more 3rd spaces, more opportunities to approach so it feels like less pressure.

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Anonymous #3 12w

It’s a concern cuz dating apps suck 😭.

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Anonymous OP 12w

Then don’t use them and start approaching in person?

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Anonymous #3 12w

U might see some guys do that as they realize the downsides of online dating. Or just give up…😭

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Anonymous OP 12w

Then those won’t be men I’d be interested in ofc bc idk them

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Anonymous #3 12w

I’d go for the confident ones that do

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Anonymous #5 11w

Right? 😂 I’m a guy who hasn’t asked a girl out, and most of the guys who are my friends haven’t either.

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