
I feel like you should be careful and think about what a freshman/sophomore in college still in their teens in all technicality has in common with someone who's brain is physically fully developed and typically has already begun their career, paying for their own medical insurance and can legally enter bars
If he treats you well, go for him and don’t listen to this people with stratospheric delusion. They dated older men when they were much younger, and now that they are old they are already expired milk. So don’t listen to them. Just follow your instinct if it says it ain’t right quit, but if he treats you well then you can remain.