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how do i ask my girlfriend for more emotional support without it coming off as rude. i’m kinda struggling mentally right now and she knows that but she’s not the best at that kind of comfort and I could really use more of a support system
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Anonymous 1w

no i’m not expecting her to be my therapist

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Anonymous 1w

Communication is key! Just make sure she isn’t your only support system, that can create a lot of pressure and a strain on the relationship.

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Anonymous 1w

maybe just straight up tell her that you’re struggling right now and open up. tell her that it means the world to you that she’s in your life and you’d love to be able to lean on her for support. if there’s anything specific you need just ask, like if you want her to listen more or comfort you. focus on affirming the things she does right or the things you like instead of framing it as things she’s doing wrong

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