Ask Women on Yik Yak | Growing up, I’ve always been sexualized and my bodies been a major topic even among my family. I feel like it affects how I think and feel about myself even now. Any advise at all on any of this?

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Growing up, I’ve always been sexualized and my bodies been a major topic even among my family. I feel like it affects how I think and feel about myself even now. Any advise at all on any of this?

Anonymous 3w

been through this as well. what i did was just be straight up, tell them that it makes them feel bad. if they’re family, remind them of their relationship with me (family) and how weird it is that they’re commenting on me in a sexual manner. old person or unc tryna insult me? read them down. they’re old and dying soon anyways and their comments 99% of the time is resentment/jealousy.

Anonymous 3w

Similar problem, my advice is do let sex drive a relationship. I’ve been used for my body and I hate that feeling but at the same time I’ve been made to feel like that’s all I’m good for. Find your own comfort with yourself and understand your worth. Put yourself in the mindset that doesn’t view everything sexually (no porn, being around good ppl, no hu, etc)