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This girl enthusiastically said yes to 2 dates but she’s left me on seen twice (both of those times was directly after she said yes to the date) also she hasn’t started a conversation, do I have anything to worry about? Probably not but I’m very anxious
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Anonymous 1d

Honestly, it doesn’t sound like she’s very interested, or respectful at all. If she has said yes, then just never replies… rude asf. She should have the respect to tell you she may have changed her mind. I’d stop messaging her until she messages you, or stop altogether tbh

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Anonymous 9h

she might just be really busy, it can happen. i sometimes just have to put my phone down for a day and get my shit done. how long has she left you on read?

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Anonymous 1d

this isn’t something i’d worry abt. beyond maybe liking the message, how would she respond to that? some ppl aren’t big texters, if she’s enthusiastically saying yes and saying she wants to see u again, then take her at her word imo

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Anonymous 21h

She ain’t it. I made a promise to myself to not even bother with women too aloof to not communicate

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Something I forgot to mention is that he ready seen her and she said she would love to see me again. By left on seen I mean she said yes, I said “perfect” or sum like that she she leaves that message on seen

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

i wouldn't get your hopes up. sounds to me like she's in this limbo of like "i wanna see where it goes but i don't wanna put in the effort" just like not talk to her and see what happens

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I got advice from others, I’m gonna do that, I’ll see where it goes but I won’t go all in on things with her, if they go somewhere then great if not then oh well

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