
Not at all. That’s a huge violation of boundaries. I did it to my partner once before we took a break out of desperation to look for any sign he loved me and honestly I felt absolutely terrible for violating his privacy like that a few months later when we had gotten to be friends again and I was no longer so angry at him l. I told him because I felt it was the right thing to do and honestly it was the maddest I had ever seen him at me. We got over everything and are back together now and I