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Why do girls ghost you when they’re upset, like I understand you might need more time to process ur emotions. “Hey I’m kinda upset rn and need some time to myself, I’ll text you when I feel better.”That’s all I need, so I’m not worried about u all day.
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Anonymous 4d

because it's easier to not send a text than to explain emotions and set boundaries. doesn't make it good but most people do things the easy way

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

I feel like it’s partially this and more being unconfrontational even if things benefit from confrontatation it can be scary

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

yeah, two sides of the same coin

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

I don't need to her explain. Just a simple little text saying she needs some time to herself. If she doesn't then I get worried and then anxious, and thats all I can think about. And it ruins my day, bc I have no idea what's going on, like is this gonna be a forever thing or you gonna randomly text me back in a week. Ik she's not responsible for my emotions, but ik for a fact when a guy does this to them they feel the same way. It's just inconsiderate and a little immature to be honest

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

tell it to her not us...!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

It’s not worth it, she’ll call me insecure and then I’ll end up apologizing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

if you already recognize that pattern, why are you complaining? you're clearly not happy with it, and you're convinced she won't change and you can't talk to her, so break it off.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Nah she still good for sex

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

wants a relationship only for sex, complains that it's emotionally unfulfilling, acknowledges that it can't be improved, won't end the situation, still wants to complain. ok.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Never said that, I don’t mind how she’s treating me bc she still good to fuck

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