
i also want to take it back; after thinking and such, if you hang around people who are equal or less, you’ll never learn anything. ik im odd and have a diff brain than most (both f and m) BUT as long as men have the power they should be expected to be better right? (also im a big advocate on feminism and true equality but unfortunately, we’re not there yet)
i’m not proud of this; as someone born female, if men are socially ranked higher than women, they should be expected to do better. if they’re not then this is very worrying. i hope women will be treated as actual equals (not greater than m) in the future so we’re not “f’ed” in the “a” when the next gen is in charge.
although that might seem true, people still have a bias. men are generally treated a better than women, in every sense of the situation. idk i’m not a words person but i hope you get my point. if you think there aren’t barriers, i can tell you’re not an afab. i’m still treated as stupid and such bc i’m an attractive female. it’s really infuriating bc i know im smart and shouldn’t have to keep proving it over and over and over again, but i still have to and still do because i will not lose.
not really. so let’s say ur a person that’s ugly, ur bullied and what not for the majority of your youth. then someone tells you that ur not a waste of space and that you matter. obviously you find comfort. comfort is addictive. once it’s gone, ur desperate to find it again, and the next one is more than happy to follow the script the last 1 left. and then it repeats. idc if its f or m, its awful either way :(