dont force yourself. explain to him you arent ready to and if he isnt cool with that then he's a loser plain and simple

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Definitely don't do it if you aren't ready

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if you're not ready, you're not ready. don't force yourself to just bc of him. if he cares about you he'll respect that you're not ready and wait for you without pressing. if he reacts poorly or tries to pressure you, he's not worth it. you deserve someone who will wait.

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Definitely wait till you’re ready , and communicate that . He should understand if not leave him he ain’t worth it

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A lot of men are sexually driven and it might pain him to have to wait. But it becomes unfair to you when you are expected to “sell” your body for him (to either stay or for his approval). From the perspective of a male, be firm on your boundaries. Many (obv not all) men do not have experience in boundary setting. But also do not shut down the idea of sex. You can make it a pragmatic issue (easier for many men to understand)- what makes you comfortable? How can he fulfill his role as …

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Please don’t feel guilty, it’s 100% fine to wait until you’re ready and he should respect that.

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Are you not ready for all forms of sex or just penetration cause there is definitely some middle ground you guys can have a good time on

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My advice is to allow your body to be used by him for his pleasure. His penis will be inside you and it will rub all around your insides. He might want to put his penis in other places too. Eventually the semen will come out and onto/into you. That will be good. Then he will relax and hug you and there will be blissful closeness.

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