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Had a girl over for a cooking dinner date and she went to the bathroom and passed my bedroom, then came back to make fun of me cause my bed has apparently a lot of pillows and blankets (think how hotels usually have it). Should I change the way I have it?
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Yes, reduce it
No, it’s fine as is
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Anonymous 4w

As a girl, I’d imagine that’s sarcasm. Unless you got a real mean and judgy girl on your hands. But id say it’s a slight flirt to reference your bed .. how they’re extra pillows / blankets. Maybe was looking for you to say that it’s comfortable or that you like to be snuggly when I sleep. maybe with her …

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Anonymous 4w

fuck her, what a strange thing to make fun of

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Anonymous 4w

Yeah if your comfortable, who cares

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Anonymous 4w

A good test to do with people who make fun of you is make fun of them back, with the exact same energy, and see how they react. My bf makes fun of me playfully, and makes fun of himself and laughs along when I do it. When I return his energy, he shows that he can take his own jokes and therefore sees them as jokes. If you get someone who’s trying to manipulate or control you with these comments, they will often get mad when you do it back. Very telling.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

yeah my first thought was that she was teasing in a flirty way~maybe you're overthinking it? If she sounded mean tho then it could be a red flag

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

sorry didn't mean to respond whoops

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Did not sound flirty, she was just kinda implying it was feminine and not manly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Oh then BOOOO🍅🍅🍅 to her. You shouldn't feel insecure about having a luxurious bed, I feel like a lot of girls would love that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I think it was flirty… some people tease to flirt. If a girl is over at your place for dinner and mentions your bed, I am strongly inclined to believe its sexual

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